Men Really Annoy Me

well this is going to be a very brief post, just wanted to say why men really annoy me. my husband hasnt been that bad lately, has been having really bad mood swings though, dont know if it is because he is tired or because of something else, but one minute he is nice to you then the next minute he snaps ur head off, and then the next minute he apologizes to you for yelling at you. so i dont know, he has been acting weird. i think that either he is really tired from working the two jobs or he is into something that he shouldnt be. i really hope that it is just that he is really tired. then the other man that is bothering me is the guy. i finally got aggravated enough that i texted him and said long time no hear do you have something that you want to tell me, and he said sorry i have had a crazy week, so i said okay just wanted to see if you had something to tell me, and he said no, just i miss you. and i said okay i miss you too, and he said i'll talk to you tonight and i said okay. which would have been great, except for the fact that it is almost 11:30pm and he still hasnt contacted me. either by calling me, texting, iming you get the picture. so that is really annoying me, because he just cant seem to keep to what he says. so i am really feeling that the i miss you crap was a pile of bullshit too, because if he did i am sure that he would have contacted me sooner, or at least tonight like he said that he would. and then tomorrow night supposedly he is going to be working, and i am supposed to be going out with the girls, so i dont know. i am just getting really frustrated and aggravated with the situation, i was really expecting when i contacted him this afternoon by texting him for him to say that it was over, he didnt have the time or whatever, but for him to say that he missed me and that he didnt have anything to say that really threw me. i wasnt expecting that. how much could he possibly miss me though? really. anyway, lets see what happens with this now, i dont want to be the first one to contact him again, because he said that he was going to contact me and didnt tonight. so i am really just getting fed up with this. i had an okay day at work, it wasnt that busy which was good, because every one had other things on their mind then calling us i suppose. which was nice for me. what upset everyone there was because they let basically everyone in the whole company go except us, we had to stay until our scheduled times which stunk. but after a certain point no one really did any work though, so that was okay i guess. so i picked up the kids as usual after work, and went to walmart and did some major shopping for groceries and other things. the end result was that we were there 2 hours, i had 2 shopping carts full and spent about 200. at least my husband was nice enough to let me use the 150 shopping card that his mom gave us, and there was another 37 dollars that was from my daughters father, so i only ended up spending 13.00 of my own money, but i am not done yet, i still have to go to publix at 2 more times before christmas day. i am doing a lot of baking, am hopefully making 6 types of cookies, cooking, and am going to try to make hard candy. this will be the first time that i have ever made candy before, so i dont know how it is going to turn out but it is worth a try. someone at my job made some for me, and it was so good, that is why i want to make it now too. as it stands now i am still supposed to be going out tomorrow night, with 2 of the girls that i work with, which i am mostly excited about, but one of them said something to me that upset me today, i made a comment about not knowing what i was going to wear that i was going to wear a miniskirt but that i wouldnt be able to bend over in it, but instead of just laughing or something she said something like oh you better now wear that, and something about being seen with her, and that if she wanted something like that she could have her daughter come too, and her daughter would definetly out dress me. so that comment bugged me, and i got offended by it, i mean obviously if her and my other friend are going to be dressing casually and not in something short or anything like that then i would dress more conservatively, but it was just the way that she said it, that i was going to be dressed like a slut or something like that, and then she also made a comment about not needing to dress to get a man because i already have one (meaning my husband) and she said well you are still married to him after all. her high and mighty attitude was really getting on my last nerves today. so i am going to probably call up the other girl and see how she is going to be dressed so that i can sort of match my way of dressing to her so i dont look odd but other then that i am going to dress the way that i want, and if she doesnt like she can kiss my ... .....you get the picture.