My Interesting Past Few Days And Today/Last Night

okay, so wednesday night i ended up going to my friends house, she ended up not having the money which was somewhat of what i had expected to happen. she did end up borrowing 5.00 from someone that she knew and giving it to me at one point during the night. and said that she would owe me the rest, she had borrowed 10.00 for me originally, and i think that if i hadnt gotten upset with her, and said that i didnt have enough gas to get home that she wouldnt have even given that to me. but i was a little upset with her because i kept asking her to make sure that she would have it, and she kept telling me yes even though she didnt have it. because i guess that she thought that she would have it or something who knows. so anyway, i went there thinking that he wasnt going to get off work until 11pm, but he actually got to her house (thanks of course to her picking him up since he doesnt have a car right now) at 10pm. so that made me happy, at the time. because i wasnt expecting to see him so early. so anyway, he got there, and it was nice, we watched a movie with my friend and her husband and brother in law, and the movie was in spanish with english subtitles so i didnt have to try to figure out what they were saying. then the movie ended at like 1am, and the guys that were there, including the guy that i am with starting arguing because apparently he had said before i had said that i was coming over that he would go with them to a club to get something, or something like that. so he didnt want to go, but they still wanted him too, because he had said originally that he would. so they all ended up going. they left at like 1am and came back at 3:30am. i ended up seeing him dressed up like i had never seen him dressed up before. omg, he looked sooo good. okay but anyway, so i stayed up with my friend until about 2am talking, and then i went sleep in his bed. he of course woke me up when he got in, and then we, okay i am not going to go into detail, but it was awesome like it always has been. so anyway, i left there at like 6am so that i could come home and get ready for work. so i didnt get much sleep that night, and the next day i was like the walking dead. it was worth it though, because i had a nice time. so that was wednesday night. so after i left there, not that i said anything about it, but i was actually intending on not seeing him until next monday night, because that was the next night that there father would have off to watch them, and i didnt have anyone else to watch them so that i could go out. but then yesterday after i got off work, my friend calls me and said that her car wouldnt start and that she thinks that it is the alternator again, and that he is at work, and will be getting off work at 9:30 and if i can come there to pick him up, and she also says that she has the money that she had borrowed from me plus some extra money for gas. so i said that i really couldnt because i had my kids and i didnt have anyone to watch them. so she said that she had tried and couldnt get anyone else to pick him up. so i ended up bringing the kids with me, putting them to sleep in his room that he is staying in my friends house, and then going to get him. then coming back to my friends house, and we all ended up sleeping in the same room together. and yes that was interesting dont even ask. i was trying to hide from them the fact that he was sleeping with me, with all of our clothes on and everything and not even really touching which was unusual for us but still, and i dont think that they realized it, and then of course there was not the usual activity from me and him that there usually was because they were right there, near us (not in the same bed as us but still), the funny thing about it was that we did start fooling around a little bit and very carefully of course with the kids, and i got mine and he didnt. which i am sure that he didnt think was very funny, but i thought that it was slightly amusing. not in a hysterical way, but i guess in an ironic way, cause i wasnt even really interested in it in the beginning like was. but anyway, on to different subjects now. the night brought a lot of interesting things, he checked me for a wedding ring, saw that i wasnt wearing one, and then with my friends translating, was asking me about the fact that i am married seperated whatever, how it all happened, why it happened, and everything like that, so i told him the whole great painful story, so now he knows everything. i asked him if made him think any differently and he said no, that he really cared for me. so who knows. i had to drive him back to work this morning with the kids in the backseat, if that doesnt chase him away with all of the other stuff, then i bet that nothing will. not that they were being bad they were just being themselves, and were hyper. so okay. anyway. what else. oh yes, he was also talking to his mother and sister last night, and told them about me and was talking to them about me, and he also told me that once he gets paid from his job, in like another two weeks or a little bit more, that he is going to take me out to a really fancy restaurant and treat me. so i was like ohh thats nice. i spoke with my friend today, and asked her if he was able to get home from work, and this was at like 11:30pm, and she said that he had just gotten home, she didnt know how because she wasnt able to pick him up cause her car still isnt working. and she also said that she didnt know how he was going to get to work tomorrow morning. i said that i was sorry that i couldnt help but that monday night i could pick him up from work, and that their dad would have the kids. so she said oh okay, and that was about it for that. then she got off the phone. she is funny sometimes she is so social and then other times she isnt at all. but i am sure that it is because of the huge amounts of issues that she has in her life going on right now. she did make a comment to me at one point last night about how men of is culture and from his country are nice to be with and whatever, but when it came to committment and that type of thing that they are such dogs. and that they cant really be trusted. and to be careful that i dont fall for him cause she doesnt want me to be hurt. i dont know if she is jaded because of what she is going through with her husband who is also from the same country or not, but it disturbed me. so i dont know what to think about that. here are some pictures from last night, there is one of me, one of my friend, and one of him.