I Knew It, I Just Knew It, I Told You So...

you get the picture, that is what, on and off, i have been saying to my dumb butt husband all day. because, as i had figured the friend that he said that he was lending the 40.00 to, never came back and gave it back to him. he also hasnt answered the phone when he has been calling him last night and today, and he hasnt responded to the messages that he has been leaving him. this is a supposed friend from that he works with, the guy also gave him a blank check for 500.00 that has a note in the memo section that says gift that is dated for this friday. and he said that when he talked to the guy yesterday he had said that he would have the money in his account on friday, and that he could cash it then, but then again he also said that he would give him the 40.00 back last night, because he knew that it was for the bills that he had to pay right away. so i dont know. the whole situation is just aggravating to me, because i had a feeling that something like this was going to happen. so anyway, he said that the guy should be at work tomorrow when he goes to work, and he is going to see what happens then. it annoys me even more because of the feeling that i had that something like this was going to happen, i didnt want to give him the money. he is saying that is going to take the check on friday and cash it, so lets see what happens with that. lets see how that goes. ugh, i am so frustrated with him and the choices that he makes. it is like he keeps getting himself deeper and deeper down. he also said that he got a call today from the night job saying that they didnt have him on the schedule anymore, and that it didnt seem like things were working out, so they didnt want him there anymore. and that he could pick up his check on saturday. he did say that he would give me 100.00 out of that paycheck, he was first saying that if he could wait til the next week, so i put my foot down and said no, because he was supposed to have given me the money for my sons birthday party (some of it to pay me back) a few days ago, so i dont intend on waiting anymore. so he called up the other night job that he had before this one and they said that he could work tomorrow night, and that they would talk about a schedule or something like that. so i guess that they are going to take him back, and he is going to have a job there. so that should be good anyway, at least it is something. hopefully that happens. i told him that i want him to have this saturday night off there (at this new old job) and also that i want him to have off saturday nights from there like before. so he said yes, that he would try his best to get that and that he would let me know tomorrow night after he is done talking to them. the guy that broke up with me twice, you know the one, texted me today, and asked what i was doing sat night because he had found a hotel that was cheap, and wanted to know if i was free. so i said that i thought so but that i would have to let him know tomorrow. so he said okay. then he at one point he said unless i could come out tonight or something like that, so i said that i didnt know it depended on what time and details like that, so he said that he was thinking, and i texted him back let me know when you have thought of something, and i havent heard from him since, that was at 5:45pm. whatever i am not worried about it. he is so ridiculous with making plans and not keeping them, i probably wouldnt hook up with him on saturday night even if my husband was going to be home, i would probably go over my friends house for us to have our hair dying party, instead of rescheduling her until sunday. which i would then have to do if i hooked up with him on saturday night. i dont know if i want to go through that and do that with him. i just dont know. and knowing him and the way that he keeps plans, he would probably just cancel on me anyway. then again, he would have to reserve the hotel and put up his credit card, so he probably wouldnt do that now that i think about it. who knows with him though. and his record for making plans and then cancelling them. i am happy that i didnt hear anything at my job today about that whole incident with the "special" doctor and his patient. i hope that i dont hear anymore about it, and that it just gets taken care of. i know now something that i didnt know before. i have only been with them for not even three months, i dont know everything yet, i only know what people tell me or what i come across and have to ask about, if not then i dont find out about it. oh and on a interesting note to end on...my boobs have been killing me for the past few days, dont know why but it is really starting to upset me. they really hurt, hurt to the touch, hurt in my bra, hurt when i walk without a bra and they jiggle, they just freaking hurt. augh! one more thing for me to be thinking about now. just great.