The Previous Dentist Appointment/And The Guy

the dentist appointment that i forgot to write about, which was on the 31st actually went pretty well. she was unfortunately not lisitening to me, but at least when they were in their dealing with her or talking to us she was behaved. what they said was the same thing that the other dentist said which was that she does definetly have 5 cavities, they said that one of them were in one of her baby teeth, and they also said they said that they ran it through her insurance and that it was only going to cost us about 13 per tooth for a total of 65 dollars, versus what the other dentist office said which was that it would be 950 dollars total for all the teeth, so 65 versus 950 that is a huge difference. the only thing is that they are a regular dentists office, and not a childrens dentist office, and they said that they dont usually work on children as little as her, and that they would normally refer them to a childrens dentist. but that they were going to try her and see how she was. so that means that in order for them to do it, she has to sit still, listen and not whine or yell. which i really hope that she does. because if they refer back to the childrens dentist, then i will be back to the 950 dollar quote like before. which i just cant do there is no way. so they didnt do any fillings or anything except the xrays and exam on her that day, and they said that they will only do one filling per visit, so that means that i am going to have to bring her back there 5 times. and she has to be good all those times. the office manager who seemed to like kayla and was talking to her said to make the appointment for a thurs so that she could sit with kayla too and talk to her. so the soonest appointment that they could give her was on the 22nd, so i had to request to leave work early to take her. and i resorted to bribing her too, and told her that every time that she went to the dentist and was really good that as soon as we left there that i would take her right to the store and buy her a toy. so hopefully that helps too. i of course also threatened her telling her that she would be punished for a very long time if she didnt. so hopefully both of those things work. we will soon see i suppose. and then the thursday a week before her appt which is on the 15th i was finally able to find a dentist and get an appt for my son, so that should be interesting. i have no idea how he is going to react to the dentist. and to the whole appointment thing. i guess we will see.

well, the going out with the guy on sat night was definetly interesting, it was weird. too start with when about two hours before i left, i got that feeling, and discovered that i had a female infection which really sucked and was a bad thing, so that made me uncomfortable right there. i bought the medicine to use at the drugstore, but the crappy part is that to use the medicine you have to be sleeping and laying down for hours to use it, so i of course had to wait until i came home and everything was over and went to sleep to use it. so i had to basically suffer the whole night with that, which i didnt mind as much as i normally would have because in my mind i knew that with that there was going to be no sex happening no matter what, even though as it turned out i didnt have to worry about that, he was really a gentleman, which was amazing considering almost every guy that i have been out with has been nothing like that. anyway, the night started off with me meeting him at a restaurant. then we went along the beach for a little while, and then we went to a country music club (which was his suggestiom) and were going to go in but my stomach was hurting so bad that we didnt go inside, we just stayed outside and walked around and everything. (with one of my friends knowing where we were going and everything just in case). he was really nice and sweet didnt try to do anything bad or inappropriate we kissed a few times. that was about it for that part of it. i didnt feel like huge sparks or anything like that, the earth didnt move like i have felt a tiny amount of times, but i wasnt really expecting it too. i didnt get a little turned out, like a tiny bit, so at least i guess that would be good for the future if i wanted to go that route. he was extremely, nice a real gentleman, i said i was cold he gave me my jacket. the bad points would be that he talked a lot, and i think more because i wasnt feeling good it was getting on my nerves at one point that he was talking so much and telling all these stories and wouldnt be quiet, and then there was the two facts that i think is the major reasons that even if i wanted to i couldnt have felt those sparks, the first one would be that his breathe wasnt nice, it was bad to a point, i gave him a mint and it faded away after a point and didnt help, and also he is only a half inch taller then me and i was wearing little heels in the boots so with those i was taller then him, and for those of you who dont know this, i have a thing about guys, they have to be taller then me at all times or i get upset, i hate it when they are shorter then me. and with the heels he was shorter then me. so i dont know. i mean talking to him he seemed like he wanted the same things that i wanted, he made a comment about in another year that he would have his degree and be doing a lot better financially and that cld be able to get a place himself, and that if i was with him cld have me and the kids with him share the bills that sort of stuff, also talked about in far future a baby, and that sort of stuff, so he is definetly thinking with what i want for my future, getting out of this situation, being with someone who treats me well, having a life with them. so he wants to settle down. which is good, cause that is what i want too. so i dont know. my stomach ended up hurting really bad, and at like 2am i told him that i had to go, and go home so that i felt better, and he seemed okay and understanding about it. when it first started hurting, he was even trying to rub it and everything (and not in a sexual way) to make it feel better. so finally i had to leave because of my stomach and i went home and finally fell asleep at like 3am. more in the next post. this one is way too long right now.