No Hangover Which Is A Good Thing

so i woke up this morning without a hangover, and after all i drank last night that is definetly a good thing, i am honestly surprised that i dont have any form of a hangover in the least bit. the guy that i was seeing annoyed me to no end last night, with changing everything on me, going back and forth and just generally not knowing what the hell that was going on or what was going to happen. if it was me that had happened to, i would take the car to a mechanic or ask one of the friends of my ex who are mechanics find out how much it would be to fix the car, and then if it wasnt worth it, i would get another car and that would be the end of it. i wouldnt be going back and forth with it and not knowing what would be happening. the reason that he doesnt know what is going to be happening is because it seems like he isnt the one that is running the show and making his own decisions about this, it is his dad. and of course he still lives with his parents. so right now with all of this that is going on, this is definetly not looking very good in my eyes about him. because now that something like this has happened he went running to daddy (and his grandma too apparently) for them to tell him what to do and help him with it. instead of handling it himself and making his own decisions. which is reminding me very strongly of HIM, that was a big argument that i used to have with HIM almost constantly, was that his parents had full say over everything that happened in his life, and even over his finances. whenever something happened or went wrong, he always went running to his daddy to help him fix it, and they always did and bailed him out of whatever situation that he was in at the time. and it seems like this is the same way. and even when HE moved out of his parents house, and moved in with me, i had thought that it would change and he would get less dependent on his parents, but nothing changed and it was still the same. i hated that, and this seems like it is the same way with him and his parents. except even worse, is that he has never been living out of his parents house, and he is 24 years old already, and he has no plans to move out any time soon. he said maybe another year or year and a half, when he graduates from college with his teaching degree and starts teaching. so by that time he will be at least 25, and will be living there for all those 25 years, and will not have any experience of living on his own. ugh. i remember a conversation that we had, about bills that you have when you live on your own, and he had absoluetly no clue how much a typical electric bill, cable bill, or rent payment was. i mean no clue, he was guessing and he wasnt even close. which just tells you a little something about him and that situation.

as far as my car and the situation of fixing it and everything, hopefully this is what is going to happen, assuming that my ex isnt pissed off with me, because ever since this morning early at like 9am when i was still sleeping, he has been calling me and annoying me about my car and fixing it and what i need to make sure that i do for it. what is hopefully going to happen is that i am going to drive to a mechanic that he knows that is near his house, which isnt that far from my job, call my ex when i get there, i am going to leave the car there for them to fix, and then he is going to bring me to work. then when i am done with work, he is going to pick me back up at work, and then bring me back to my car. and it should be done by them. my ex is annoyed with me even more because i had spoken with the mechanic and asked him if he could also check my a/c because it isnt cold at all anymore and also if he could check my brakes because they are squealing and squeaking really bad. and also i told him that we definetly need to change the oil because it needs to be done, it is about time. so my ex is annoyed with me because that means that it will cost more then the original 500.00 that he was quoted from this mechanic to just fix what needs to be done which was the water pump and with it the timing belt. but it isnt like i am not going to be paying for it eventually because my ex said that the money that he is lending me to fix it will be coming out of my child support for this month, which is 250.00 so that will be completely done, and also my tax return money that he was going to give me some of. so not only will i not get any child support for this month, but also my tax return money that i wanted to save in case of emergencies or i needed it, will be used and lord knows how much i will have left. probably not that much. which isnt good. there goes money that i was counting on saving in case i needed it. well, what else is new, it seems like what happens is that once i get a little bit of money, it always goes because something happens. you know my aunt was saying that this is enough bad things that are happening to me, that good things need to start happening and i need to start thinking positively. so i responded that i had been thinking positive lately and that i hadnt been negative in a little while, and that this had still happened. so go figure then right.

i just realized that i never put the update of what happened with my sons preschool. me and his father, with my son of course had went there, and spoke with the teacher and the owner, who both of course denied that it had happened. and at one point they owner said that it definetly hadnt happened which she of course doesnt know cause she wasnt there, so that was upsetting us. and then the teacher, who has always been very old and grumpy, lost her temper with my husband and started shaking her finger at him and screaming at him. so he lost his temper and started screaming and yelling and cursing and stood up and i swear i thought that he was going to knock her out. he almost did is what he said. so to make a long story short the owner was basically saying that it didnt happen and that my son was lying which isnt something that she would know because it wasnt there, and the teacher was saying that it didnt happen. and the owner wasnt going to get rid of the teacher, which is what i had figured, and she was saying that she could put frankie in another class, but was basically saying that she couldnt guarantee that the teacher wouldnt be near my son because she was still going to be employed there. and then she was saying something about watching my son in class, instead of saying that she was going to watch the teacher. so end of the story is basically that being that the teacher is still employed there, and because of the way that the whole situation was treated, my son isnt going to be going there anymore. as it is now my mom had said that she would watch him 3 days a week, and his father would then have to watch him the other 2 days. so lets just hope that his father can get those days off work, because as of right now he is scheduled to work on one of those days and they havent given it to him off work. so that isnt good. because i have to work i cant get that day off work. i hope that everything goes okay with my mom watching my son too, because last time she had to stop because it got to be too much for her and she got stressed out and upset. so i just hope that this lasts as long as i need it too. i know that in august he can start (as long as i am able to register him for it and register him for it) with the program for 4 years old that they have, which once you register him for that instead of paying the full price which is like 125.00 a week, it is only 60.00-65.00 a week which is a big difference, that is about half. so maybe if anything she can watch him until then, but that is still at least 6 months from now, which is a long time. so i dont know.