My Husband, The A*s

well something that has already long been established in my mind has just recently been reestablished for me, and that is the above. my husband is a real a*s. i wanted to have sex last night and he didnt want to, he actually laughed at me and said that he was tired and that if i wanted i could do everything and he would just lay there for me. gee thanks, that really helps. and then i have been feeling really bad about myself (as i am sure that you can tell) so of course everything is making me unhappy. one of them is my body. so in a really depressed statement i said that from the side i was so fat that it looked like i was pregnant. so instead of saying that i didnt, or reassuring me, he just started laughing. HARD. so i finally decided to join the gym again that i used to belong to, and they even gave me a great deal of not having to pay any fees and i just had to pay my monthly fees. which was good. so now he is whining about not being able to spend every night of the week (and weekend) with me sitting around doing nothing. its like i jsut cant win, i can never seem to make myself happy and everyone else, no matter what i do someone is always pissed off or upset with me.