Oh He Pisses Me Off So Bad

frankie's dad i am talking about of course. yesterday i am supposed to bring frankie top him as usual, at about 4pm, so he calls me yesterday morning and is saying that he doesnt feel well can i keep frankie that night, blah, blah. so i said fine i will keep frankie, but that it wasnt going to be that i switch days with him, i would still have him my normal days. so he says fine. and i keep frankie yesterday. last night i talk with him, and tell him that at around 11am this morning i would bring him frankie. he says fine. he wakes me up at 9:30am this morning, calling me, to ask what time i am going to bring frankie to him. so i told him what i said yesterday which was 11am. so he says okay, just call me when you are on your way because i am going to be taking a nap. so i said okay, i was on time, and called him about 10 minutes before i got there, he didnt answer his phone. i called him probably like 20 times, then i get to his house, hes not outside like he usually is, i keep calling him no answer, me and frankie start knocking on the door, no answer, so finally i knocked one last time really hard because i was getting ready to just leave and he wouldnt get frankie today, and his girlfriend answers the door. she was apparently getting ready to get in the shower cause it looked like she was wrapped in a towel and only stuck her head out the door. so i said hi to her, gave frankie a hug and kiss and asked her to tell frank that i had called him a ton of times and he didnt answer, so she said that she would, thanked me, i said your welcome, and that was it. the whole experience didnt bother me, she wasnt beautiful like frankies dad had me thinking that she was, from the way that he was talking i thought that she was drop dead gorgeous, she wasnt prettier then me, at least her face wasnt of course, cause i didnt really see anything else. it actually made me feel a little better seeing her, because this is the woman that is around my son when he is with his dad. so at least i got to see what she was like, she seemed okay. so anyway, about an hour later, frankies dad calls me said that he was sleeping, but claimed that his phone hadnt even rang, and was saying oh that must have been awkward for the two of you to see each other, i said no it wasnt for me, i was fine, i have nothing against her, maybe it was awkward for her though, considering i am still married to you, who knows. and he asked me if i thought she was pretty, so i said yeah she was okay, not prettier then me, and he said well i never said that she was. but that is how i judge women is if they are better looking then me or not, and i didnt think that she was. but anyway, that was the majority of the conversation, he was also just b's'ing with me, asking me how i was feeling, if i knew what sex the baby was yet, that sort of thing, so i answered him, and he said that it was good that we were being nice to each other, and i agreed, even though i know that once he gets served with the divorce papers he probably isnt going to be so nice anymore, especially when he sees that it says he has to pay over $400 child support a month. hopefully he will stay civil though, because i dont want to deal with him acting like a you know what.

kaylas dad got diagnosed with being diabetic, so in addition to him having high blood pressure, he got diagnosed with that too. so i made the mistake of telling him that mike had been diagnosed with it a few months ago too, and now i am his personal dietitian and informant, telling him what is good to eat, all about checking his blood sugar, how often and all of that. i was supposed to go to his house tomorrow to help him with it, and go with him to get the meter and everything but my boyfriend has tomorrow off, so i told her dad that i would help him on tuesday.

we might have something that may help us with paying our bills every month. my boyfriend mentioned to his parents about wanting to possibly get rid of one of the new cars so that we could not have that monthly payment, and asked them if they would be interesting in buying the one that he drives (which as of right now is only 10 months old). so they discussed it i guess, and told him that they would do that, but they would want to pay it off, that way they didnt have payments on it. but to do that, they have to get money from some things that they are waiting for to get done, and that is probably going to take at least 2-3 months. so at least there may be some relief in the horizon, i really hope so. i hope that it works out okay with them getting the money, because that is $300 a month that he pays on that car that we wouldnt have to worry about. so i asked him if that meant that we would just be going down to one car, and he said that no, his parents would be giving us the van that they have, which is in good condition and doesnt have that much mileage on it, i think that he said that it has 50,000 miles on it, which isnt bad. so that would also solve our issue of needing a van or suv soon too. because we needed something with a third row soon, but we had said that we were going to have to wait since we had just recently gotten both of these cars. so now getting the van will definetly make things a lot more comfortable and easier instead of trying to cram three kids and two adults (when we are all together) into a small car. so needless to say with all of that, i am really keeping my finger crossed that this all happens.