I Knew It, Sympathy, Annoyance, And Stinking Schools

well, sure enough i had frankie's dad pegged correctly. i knew that it was nothing within his personality that would have him getting served the divorce papers and to not say anything to me about it. sure enough, after i wrote that blog on saturday he called me up yelling at me that he got served my divorce papers on friday night and that there was no way he was going to pay me $480 a month in child support, he just doesnt have it, and especially being that he is a month behind in his rent right now. which i think is interesting especially being that he told me that his girlfriend was so awesome and that she was paying all his bills for him. well, evidentally she isnt doing a very good job of that, if he is still behind on his rent. but anyway, i didnt think to say that at the time, which stinks because that would have been a very good comeback. and then he was saying that there was no way he would pay that much money and that they could take him to jail, he didnt care. which if the judge did order him to pay (because there is nothing set until the judge orders it) and he didnt pay, eventually he would get taken to jail, and then he would still have to pay for all the time that he was there. and then he also tried saying that he was disabled, and i said where does it say that legally, and he of course doesnt say anything, and his answer for that was that he is going to file to be or something like that. which not only does that take forever, but i looked it up to make sure, he would still have to pay child support even if he was, the only thing that would change is that the amount in child support that he would have to pay would be changed, it would be then based on how much he was getting per month in disability. so he thinks that he is so slick, but all the things that he said to try to get out of paying child support dont seem like they are going to work for him. and then finally the last thing that he had to say was that he wanted to settle it out of court again, and that he wanted to sign the paper that i had been showing him orginally the one that he was saying before that he didnt want to sign. of course the reason that he wants to sign that one now is because that one says that he would only have to pay like $130 a month in child support and that he would have frankie half of the time. but of course, that is all changed now, now that i stopped working and also now that i had to file everything with the courts and have him served and everything else. so if he thinks that i am going to have him sign and agree to that now, he has something else to think about. because that isnt going to happen. it looks like now the court is just going to have to decide. which is going to piss him off even more. oh well.

kayla's dad was being incredible today. i went over to his house, at his request of course, to help him with his diabetes. to make sure that his blood sugar was okay, check what he was eating, etc. of course, surprise, surprise, to me he tries his very hardest to get me in bed with him. i mean his hardest. give me a break. i am over there trying to help him because he asked me too, and i am trying to be nice to him, and he doesnt care. all he wants is to get laid, by me. come on. i am obviously pregnant, he knows that i am pregnant, knows that i have a boyfriend, who i live with, obviously we are having sex. and yet he still wants me. i honestly hope that i am never like that, wanting someone that bad who doesnt want me. i felt sorry for him, i really did. not sorry enough of course to have sex with him, or do anything with him, but i did feel sorry for him. i even told him something that i thought was going to piss him off, which was that the letter that he wanted me to write for immigration for him to get his papers, stating that he has been giving me child support every month for the past over 6 years, was going to be written my way and not the way that he wanted me too. he wanted me to write that he had been giving me the full amount of what was ordered every month, which is 526.00, he has only been giving me 250.00 a month, due to an agreement that we made when he lost his job that he had before, that was paying him really good money. so i told him that i was going to write it this certain way, and instead of really pissing him off like i thought that i would, it didnt even really bother him. i think he was just concerned with trying to get me to have sex with him, so i guess at least i picked a good time to tell him that, so i didnt have to hear him yelling at me.

my boyfriend and i actually had sex on sunday morning, i got him when he woke up in the morning, and he was all you know.....before he went to work. it would have been pretty good, especially being that we used ky jelly and it didnt even really burn, maybe a tiny bit, but nothng like it had before in the past. so yeah, ky jelly. i am happy that i had lisitened to the midwife about the ky jelly, and that it helped like she had said that it would. and it is a good thing that i brought it out to use it because the position that he choose to do it in (i told him that he could pick) would normally have probably burned because it isnt a position that is very good for me to be moist in. of course the other thing about that position is that in the years that i have been sex i cant come in that position, i never have been able to. i can get really turned on and ready to, but i never have been able to in that position. so of course i didnt have an orgasm, not that i was mad at him over it, because i did tell him that he could pick whatever position that he wanted to do it in. and he did pick, so i couldnt be mad at him. what i thought was interesting though, was that afterward he actually asked me if it was good for me, and i mumbled something, i just dont know why he would have asked me that when he knew that i didnt have an orgasm. i know that he could tell, because i dont make it a secret when i have one. men, who knows? then he aggravates me last night, when i was watching something on tv, by changing the channel right in the middle of me watching it, and not putting it back to what i was watching. that was rude.

Kayla's school, well not exactly the school in general, more of the assistant principal and kaylas teacher, have been really upsetting and annoying me lately. kayla wasnt turning in her homework or schoolwork in school for about two weeks, and i just found out about it, instead of like three days going by and then them telling me that she hadnt turned in her work, they wait two weeks to tell me. and then i notice that kayla isnt up to where she should be with the work, she doesnt seem to know what she is doing, and also she is writing a few of her numbers and letters backwards and also confusing two letters together. and then on friday she was on the bus and a few other kids were throwing candy in the bus, and it got in her hair, which got me even more upset, because the bus driver doesnt seem to have any control over them at all. so i call the assistant principal up this morning, asking her to set up a meeting, so that i can discuss all of my concerns with her, and i basically get brushed off, with her saying that i need to have a meeting with the teacher first, and then if i dont get any satisfaction then we can all have a meeting together. and when i told her about kaylas problems with her work, and asked her if there was tutoring available or if she could switch kayla into a teacher's class who has less students i was told that tutoring isnt offered because there is no funding for it, and also that there is no other class that has less students. so i was basically completely brushed off by the assistanct principal. then the teacher called me (per the asst principals request) to set up a meeting with me and her regarding kayla. i didnt answer my phone at the time. so the teacher leaves a message on my phone saying that she would love to have a meeting with me, but that the only time that she is available is in the morning at 7:30am before school starts, because she does something else after school. thats it, no other options. never mind that i have things to do before school, like getting two kids ready for school, and to school, but no, i need to do it when it is good for her. and she says to write a note and put it in kaylas planner, saying what morning would be good for me. can you say none of them? so then kayla gets me annoyed because there is no planner in her backpack tonight, she claims that it was in her backpack, but then i guess lord knows what happened to it. hopefully it is still at school. i really hope so. so i am not able to write the note back to kayla's teacher saying that i cant do it at all at 7:30am today, so from the discussion that i had with kayla today, i really hope that she remembers to bring it home tomorrow. and then i am going to write the note to her teacher explaining that in the mornings i have two children to to get to school, and that will never work for me, and what other options are there. i cant believe that the teacher is that inflexible that she is just giving one time that she is available and that is it. she wants it at her convenience and i am sorry that just isnt going to happen. if we cant settle on a time, that isnt that early, then i am just going to have to call back the asst principal and tell her that i tried to have a meeting with the teacher but she is being totally uncooperative and then see what she has to say. sigh.

well, i guess that i ranted and went on and on enough, there was just so many things that went on and are going on, i wanted to put them down here while i have a chance.