Kids Say The Darnedest Things?

so me, Frankie, and Kayla were sitting at the table this morning, eating breakfast that i had cooked, with potatoes and eggs, and i got the idea in my head to ask him what he eats at his dads house for breakfast, and he told me that his dads girlfriend cooks him breakfast and not his dad, and that he eats pancakes with no syrup for breakfast and that is it. and that for dinner he eats either pizza, chinese food, hot dogs, or sandwhiches. pretty balanced huh? then i asked him what he drinks at his dads house, and first he said soda, then he said orange and purple milk? huh? i have no idea what he was talking about then. after all of this i was really curious so i asked him if his dads fridge was full like mine or empty and he said that it was empty and that his dad said that the reason why was that once he got his brothers car (frankies uncle) that he would then be able to go to the grocery store and get groceries, and that right now he couldnt. which is not a good excuse at all, how do other people who dont have cars get groceries? they use a bus, ask a friend or family member for a ride, that sort of thing. more and more i really want to get everything done with custody of frankie, and i really want his dad to only have him maybe two days a week (the most if not one day a week) of having him, i dont want him to have the same amount of time that i have him which is 50/50. and then he can also give me the child support that i deserve, and if not he can have his butt thrown in jail, and if that happens i wont shed any tears. he isnt giving him balanced meals at all, he has no food in his house for the kid to eat, which even though frankie does have a tendency to lie or exaggerate i am sure that he isnt lying about that, because that sounds just like his father, and when he was living on his own before. and then of course there is the issue with him not feeding him lunch, and also with the three of them living in that small little one bedroom house and the kid not having any room or space to call his own, which every kid needs. even when him and kayla had to share a room, he at least had an area to call his own, and his own bed that no one else would sleep in but him. and now he doesnt share a room with anyone, he has his own room, and even after the baby is born he is still going to have his own room, because the baby is going to be in kayla's room with her. if i wanted to i could try to get full custody and have him be with me all the time, and just see him maybe once a week or once every two weeks with supervised visitation, but i dont want to take it that far. i dont want to try to get his father out of his life, i just want to make sure that frankie is well taken care of, and i feel that whenever he is with his father he isnt. i feel that it is in the best interest of frankie that the time that he spends with his father be limited.

i was told by the paralegal/document person that i had work on the divorce for me that he was supposed to be served with the divorce papers on thursday the 17th, and that the reason that she knew that was because the server had called her that morning and told her that he would be serving him that day. well, needless to say he hadnt mentioned anything to me about being served, and being that he doesnt know that this is coming, i am sure that he will call me up cussing and screaming about the fact that i had him served and that it says in the paperwork that i am asking for over $400 a month in child support and also the other things that it says in there. and he hasnt mentioned a word to me about anything. which to me means that he hasnt been served. and other people that know him and his personality agree, he would be yelling at me at the top of his lungs, once he got the papers. so i called the same paralegal person back this past wednesday (the 23rd) to make sure with her that he had been served, and she said that he had definetly been served because she received the paperwork back from it. she thought that it was sometime around that thursday, friday or monday (monday being the 21st) she said that she didnt have the paperwork right in front of her at this time. so being that i dont think that he has been served, and also since there is no mention of it on the county clerk of courts website (it says everything else, but not that he was served) i am planning on calling her back up on tuesday of this coming week, and ask her for the exact date that he was served, and then also tell her that i want to come by the next day to pick up a copy of what he signed. or the proof that they have that he was served. then if something happens with that, and she doesnt have that information, then i know that he wasnt served. and then we are going to have to see what has to happen from there.