Thursday, April 26, 2007

My Nails

well i am very surprised by something that i just recently found out. i have been going to the same shop, to the same owner, for over a year to have my nails done every two weeks. and we had a really good relationship. friendship i even thought. i had my nails done there about three weeks ago, and i thought that everything was fine. then i called there to make my appointment yesterday like i usually do, and i was told that she wasnt there anymore. so i asked if the other owner was there anymore, which was her husband, and they said no that they had sold the shop about two weeks ago and moved to another city in florida which is several hours away. i was amazed that they would do this and not say anything to anyone, especially her say something to me, because i was a regular customer and would only have her do my nails. i even had her cell phone number, which by the way out of curiousity i called, but it was of course disconnected. i guess it just goes to show you, you think that you know someone and have a relationship with them, and look what happens. it just figures. i feel weird about this, like i deserved to be told and i guess offended that i didnt. it just goes to show you, how you feel about someone, doesnt mean that they feel the same way about you. how i really liked her and everything, doesnt mean that she thought of me the same way.

along those same lines, is the guys. i havent heard from any of them for quite a while now. i didnt hear from the jerk that stood me up twice since that last message that he had sent me on saturday saying yes, i'm sorry, and i answered that i guess i should be used to it by now. so i guess after that maybe he decided to give it a break for now, and forever who knows. i am not worried about it. i mean come on, you cant blame me for being upset, he stood me up two weekends in a row. ummm, hello. you see why i would be upset with you? anyway. and then there is of course the jerk that dumped me a little while ago after we were going out for two months. and with the dumbest reasons too. and not even the dumbest reasons, he was a jerk with what he said and how he said it too. i still cant believe that because i said that i didnt want to agree to being friends with him right then because of the way that he was treating me and what he was saying to me, that he was going to get mad at me. and rip me out of his life. i mean he actually removed me from his my space friends, and things like that, he is serious apparently about this ripping out of life thing, especially being that i havent heard from him since. which is fine with me, i just find it interesting that after he broke up with me, and acted and said what he said, he actually expected me to be friends with him, and got mad at me that i didnt. what a you-know-what.

surprise of surprises my husband actually kept to something that he had said that he was going to do, and got me my necklace back on monday night. he also gave it to me then, i just forgot to write it here. so at least he kept to one thing that he said. because if he didnt, i would have been beyond upset. so maybe he realized that who knows. but at least i have my necklace back. i of course dont have my 3 piece set of wedding rings, or the other jewelry that was in that box, but he claims that he had nothing to do with those being missing. which i dont believe. because i know where i put them, and they were there the last time i looked. so he must have had something to do with them being missing. but that is another argument i suppose. i have given those up as gone. i have given up hope of getting those back.

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