Saved By His Dad

well, it looks like his dad is definetly going to be saving him, he said that he talked to his dad this evening and that he said that he would be going to his job tomorrow morning and bringing him the money, so that is good. at least we will have the money and not have to get evicted. he said that he had also told his dad that he wouldnt be able to give him the money until the end of next month, and he had said that it was okay. so that is a relief. so know lets all just keep our fingers crossed that he gives him the money tomorrow, the rent gets paid without a problem and that there are no more issues, and also that he has learned his lesson and that this doesnt happen again. i really hope that he learned his lesson. and also that he pays his dad back on time like he had promised him that he would. i already told him that i cant go through this again, and he said something about learning his lesson and not doing this again, so lets really hope that it doesnt. because the sad thing is that the amount of times that i have helped him out, i have no money now left in my savings account, i think i have 25.00 the most, and of course nothing extra in my checking, i am just barely paying my share of the bills every month, and therefore wouldnt even have any money left over to save if i wanted to, which i would of course, but i cant. so anyway, if anything happened with being evicted now, i would have no money nothing. which would be very bad, and with two kids.
so this is the time that you realize who your friends are, and who arent. you friends are the ones that you have only known for a little over a year, and who offers that if you have nowhere else to stay you can stay with her, and then her husband offers to lend you 500.00 to help you out, if that would help you keep your apartment. those are friends. are someone who would let you crash on their couch or their floor with your kids just so that you wouldnt be homeless or sleeping in your car, those are friends. who arent friends i dont think are the people that you have been friends with for several years and either they dont say anything at all about or offer any help or suggestions, or they are talking to you about it, get another call, hang up on you, and then never call you back. you get the picture, you learn really quick who your true friends are when stuff like this happens. you see the ones that run or wont/dont talk to you and then the other ones who want to help you. so i guess this could be a lesson for me as well, and not just for my "husband". even my ex offered not in so many words, but sort of, that we could move in there, of course, i would only do that if that was my absolute last resort, and there was no other place on this earth that i could stay. especially with the little incident last week, but you get my point. even he offered to help. so now i have learned something i suppose, and lets see what i do or if anything i do about what i have learned. i am just keeping my fingers crossed that everything goes okay now tomorrow, and also of course that this never happens again, i am like paranoid that it will. well, i will have to wait and see what happens.