Update, Update, Updates

okay, so yeah i havent updated this in what seems like a really long time. okay so first of all, we moved into the house, even though it wasnt even close to being done at the time that we moved in, considering that it still didnt have any form of a kitchen at all. but we moved anyway, partly so that we wouldnt have to spend the extra money to stay where we were, and also because i dont care how good the neighborhood is, if someone gets the idea that you are fixing up the house and putting nice expensive things in it, and no one is there living it, something is bound to happen. well to this date, the house is definetly further along then it was when we first moved in, which was the end of april. it still needs something that is very important to a kitchen, which is a kitchen sink. so we cant cook in the house at all until the kitchen counters are put in, and then the sink gets put in at the same time. you apparently cant have a kitchen sink in without the counter, go figure. there are a lot of other things that are half done, including the doors on all the doorways which have been ordered and not received yet, all the painting downstairs, and a lot of other fixing mending and putting up things. which also have not been done. so needless to say all of that of course is frustrating me. and then there is the fact that my boyfriends dad comes over at least 3 full days a week (full meaning 9-5pm) to work on the house. and annoys me of course. because he interjects in me discipling the kids, which doesnt pertain to him, he is yelling at them to stay out of his way, which it is there house, sorry we have to live here while you are working. and then of course there is the fact that i have just been around his family too much lately, i see at least one of them way tooo much. and they get on my nerves a lot. because they are just too demanding and try to take over everything. which is nothing new, i have had that complaint about them for a long time.

then of course there is the fact that i filed for my divorce jan 11th, and am still not even close to being divorced. i have been given the run around so bad with the courts that it is horrible. they tell me to file one thing, i file that, they tell me to submit this, i submit it, then they send me a letter saying that request was rejected, then when i call them up asking why, they say that they dont know, they dont understand why it didnt get approved, and that was the next step of what i was supposed to do. so i am just getting so frustrated with it i dont know what to do, the only thing that i can think of is what was suggested to me by one person, which was to get one of the attorneys that they have there, for fifteen minutes is $15 to give me legal advice i guess, meaning telling me what to do. it is just so frustrating, he of course hasnt given me child support since we have been seperated this whole time, which is a year in the middle of july, and also in the month and a half now that he has moved to new jersey (a different state) he hasnt sent money at all for child support, being that frankie is living with me constantly and i am supporting him in every way. somehow of course this doesnt surprise me, but still i guess that i expect a little bit better from him, and somehow he always disappoints me. and then of course there is the fact that he hasnt talked to frankie in several days, all because he keeps calling frankie after he knows that it is his bedtime, which is at 8pm. last night he called at 8:30pm, and the night before he called at 9pm. hello? come on, what the hell is wrong with him? never mind i know what is wrong with him. doing too much you know what has rotted his brain. and the fact that i am still married to him annoys me as at is, then there is the fact that isnt required to pay child support right now because there is no order stating that, so hes not. augh. wonderful man right? i know how to pick them i guess.