What A Piece Of Crap--Part 2

copied from my space blog.....

To continue the piece of crap saaga with Frankie’s dad---here is part 2

He calls up last night suuposedly to say goodnight to him, doesnt even talk to Frankie yet, without starting b.s. with me. Yelling and screaming at me that he would have to fly down here from new jersey twice (because of the court case), and how is he going to be able to afford that when he doesnt even have a job yet there. How is any of this my problem? With him knowing that he has a court case pending involving his son, why wouldnt he have thought of this before? Because he doesnt think of things ahead of time. And then he tells me that he just might not show up for the things that he has to. Well, that is up to him. If he doesnt want to show up, for something involving him and his son, so be it. And then something I thought was really amusing was his threat with not paying me child support once it was ordered and becoming a deadbeat dad. Even though I didnt say it, which I should have, I just didnt think of it at the time, I already consider him a deadbeat dad. He doesnt give me child support for Frankie, no money to buy anything that Frankie needs, nothing. I dont see a dime from him right now. So what does that make him?

Also on the note of not having his phone number or address of where he is in new jersey, yesterday night he claimed that he had already given it to me, which was incredible to me, because there was no way in hell that he had. So then he starts to argue with me that he had already. Finally maybe he realized that he hadnt given it to me after all, and stops arguing with me, and then he still doesnt give it to me. What the hell? What is his problem? Wouldnt you think that you would give the mother of your child, who takes care of him day after day, at least your phone number so she can contact you in case of an emergency? Nope. Doesnt give it to me. Such a responsible father. I only hope that if he doesnt show up for court when he has to, that the court sees that, and takes that under consideration when it comes to Frankie and his father (regarding custody, child support, etc), and doesnt hold up the court case because of him not showing up too.