Wow It Has Been A Long Time

well, i just realized when i looked back that it had really been a long time since i had blogged in here, even longer then i thought that it had been. as it stands now with frankies dad, the last that i have heard, is that his flight to jersey to stay with his girlfriends family is on the 2nd of april. so that is that, supposedly. he has already given me all of frankies clothes and toys that he had there for frankie, he also has an eviction that is now pending with the court, they filed for it on the 20th. so it seems that he is definetly leaving. so i am going to have frankie full time constantly, and he is leaving. now he isnt saying anything about visiting once a month, because he is saying something about how much money that it would be, and he is saying something about maybe i can send frankie to visit on spring break and summer break, and that would probably be six months, and that i would have him six months. i informed him that wouldnt be six months, summer is usually two months, and spring break is only like a week or two, and so is winter break. so whatever. he is just trying to say that because he was probably trying to get out of giving me child support, even though he did say something about needing my address so that he could send me money for frankie. lets wait and see if that one happens. i do have news for him though, if he doesnt give me any child support, i am going to do everything in my power not to send frankie to see him, because if he doesnt want to be a father to support frankie financially why should he be a father to see frankie. it doesnt work that way. and especially being that we are in the middle of the divorce, and he still has to go to mediation and eveything else, lets see what happens if he doesnt show up. i dont know what they would do in that case. anyway, me having my saturday night where frankies dad has frankie are going to be over after this weekend. and it used to work out so well too because some saturday nights kaylas dad would have her, so i would have the chance to have the night to myself, either to go out with mike or to go out with one of my friends. so that is now going to be over, oh well, i guess it was good while it lasted. hopefully being that this is going to be the last weekend that i have it like that, i am hopefully going out with my friend, and we are going to have lunch, and shop or movies or something like that. i really hope so, that will be nice especially being that this is going to be the last time for this. and it isnt even like mike could say why am i not going out with him, because he is working until at least 8pm.

we saw a townhouse together i think it was on the 12th of this month, that we really liked, so mike put a bid on it to the bank, it is bank owned because it is a foreclosure. so anyway, he put the bid on it, and they accepted the bid, and he got a contract on it. so the next step was to have it inspected which he did, and the inspector said that he didnt see anything major wrong with it. then he got with the bank that had preapproved him for the mortgage, and they were saying something about it being a condo and that would be 15% down, and he was just planning on putting 5% down. and then they said that even if it got classified as a townhouse that the standards had gotten changed and that it was now 10% down, so he started to panic and get upset and had to contact his parents who were lending him the money, that he was supposed to be paying most of it from his stock that he has with his company, and they said that they could lend it to him for the 10%. so he had to call the bank again, and make sure that they would classify it as a townhouse, which there is no question it is at least in our minds anyway, and they basically said that they didnt think that it would be a problem. so hopefully that goes well, we still dont have a close date, the realtor said that she would be in touch with the title company (with the bank) to see if she could find out when it would be. the townhouse is a three bedroom, two and a half bath, upstairs and downstairs (of course) and it is almost 1500 square feet with a big patio in the front that is fenced in. it is really nice. and that is basically 500 square feet more then what we have right now, which is good too. so just keeping our fingers crossed that nothing else happens and that everything else goes okay.