Wow Its Been Forever

So yes, I know that it has been forever since I have had a chance to post on this blog. To be honest I havent really been doing a lot online, because I just havent had a chance to do much of anything. Cameron is now over 6 months old, and he is doing well. He loves his baby food, tolerates his bottles, is over 18 pounds now, and I think the last visit if I remember correctly he was 28 inches long. The visit to the pediatric urologist, and all the subsequent visits afterwards along with the tests afterward, basically summed up the doctor saying that we would wait until january and have another ultrasound and see what was going on with it. The diagnosis is that he had a partial blockage of one of his kidneys, and they were hoping that it would correct itself eventually. So hopefully it will. He has the appointment for the ultrasound this week, and then after that we should know what the doctor advises to do about it, whether surgery should be performed or not. In the beginning of August, the baby wasnt even six weeks yet, I started working again. I work part time, averaging about two days a week, in a store. I make basically nothing per hour, and am having issues with them at the moment because they cut back my hours to only four hours last week, and now this week I am not even on the schedule. I got divorced from my sons father, finally, the beginning of September. He was ordered to pay me $250 a month, I have only seen that amount twice so far. And honestly I am surprised that I saw it that much. Supposedly there is a check in the mail to child support for $250, which they of course forward to me, now. So hopefully I get it, and it actually was sent. And by the way, the money isnt even from him, it is being paid by his mother and her husband, more about that interesting information in a minute. The person that I always referred to as my boyfriend in these posts is now my husband, we got married the day after his birthday. There was an issue with me and the kids not having any more health insurance, and there were other things that went on too, and we decided to get married. Or I should say I finally agreed to marry him, because he of course wanted to get married this whole time, and I was the one who wasnt so sure of the idea. Does it make me worried with me being married again, yes it really does at times, and I wonder if I made the right decision a lot of times, like when he starts to be dumb or makes me mad. Am I happy with him most of the time? Yes. Do I have everything that I want and need within his control? Yes. So I would say I am well taken care of. So Frankies dad, who I divorced in September, comes back down here to live from New Jersey. He was in New Jersey since April, and the piece of you know what didnt send me any money the whole time that he was there. But I am getting off the subject, he came down the end of August and stayed here, never went back to Jersey. So he stayed with his dad, well him and his dad had an issue, and his dad threw him out and he wound up sleeping in the bushes, homeless. So after a while of this, I felt sorry for him, spoke with my husband, and asked if he could come and stay here with us. He said okay, which surprised me, and he came to stay with us. The deal was that he was supposed to pay child support, of course, and also give us $35 a week to stay here to help with expenses. Did we see a lot of that money? No. Did I get the child support? Just two times since September. Wonderful right? So last month, Frankies dad was leaving to go to visit his mother in another state, and my husband said to him basically that he wasnt coming back here when he came back. So frankies dad decided to stay where he was, and supposedly has a job there and everything. So we will see what happens with that. He left here at night on Dec 21st. I am very proud to say that I didnt do anything (naughty) with my ex-husband (frankies dad) while he was staying here. Actually I havent done anything with him since the day that we got seperated, but that is a little off subject here. Anyway, I am just proud of myself for that because I thought that I would have been tempted.--------I am ending this post here, because it is now April 15th, 2009 and I found this post in my edit posts that hadnt been posted-----so I am posting this now, and it is too late to write more tonight, but I will be updating more very soon, hopefully tomorrow!